February 1, 2024

How to Tell If a Guy Likes You Gay

Gay men don’t wear a neon sign that says “Gay.” They don’t walk differently, talk different or behave any differently than straight guys. That’s why it can be so hard to hone in on how they feel about you.

You catch him staring at other men. This may seem subtle, especially if you see him doing it in public or when he thinks no one is around. But this could be an indication that he’s interested in other men, or that his sexual orientation isn’t heterosexual.

He talks about his sexual fantasies with other men. It’s not uncommon for guys to discuss their fantasies in their spare time, but if your guy is openly talking about them with other guys, it may be an indication that he’s gay or bisexual.

Does he touch you more than other people? Gay guys like to show physical affection, which can include holding hands or kissing. This is a way for them to show their interest in someone without being overt about it.

When you talk, does he listen intently and respond thoughtfully? If he’s able to remember the details of your conversation, it means he cares about you. He’s also listening to your body language when he communicates with you, which can help him express his feelings.

He respects your boundaries. If you’re not into sex right away or have other things going on in your life, he will respect those boundaries instead of pushing you to change them. He will also keep the lines of communication open by texting you or calling to check in.


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