February 1, 2024

How to Know Your Boyfriend is Gay

If you suspect your boyfriend might be gay, it can feel like a big deal. You can't be sure unless he tells you, but there are some clues to watch for. Here are some of them:

If he seems overly interested in his male friends and spends more time with them than usual, this might be a sign that he's gay. Similarly, if he hides social media accounts on his phone (including Grindr, Scruff, Jack'd, and Growlr) or uses different apps for interacting with men than he does with you, this is also a red flag.

He might talk about wanting to experience sex with men or suggest role-play that feels geared toward men. This may be something he just wants to try for fun, or it could be a part of his journey as a gay man. Either way, it's not a betrayal and shouldn't be treated as one.

If you notice any of these signs, it's important to be respectful and have a clear conversation with him about them. It's not your place to tell other people about his sexuality before he's ready, and it's not fair to make him feel embarrassed or ashamed if he's gay. Likewise, you should never use your relationship as an excuse to act rudely or be demeaning to other people. In fact, being empathetic and showing empathy is one of the most important things you can do for yourself and your partner.


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