So you're a gay guy who wants to find a man and settle down. You're good looking, have a great group of friends, and take excellent care of yourself. You're a "real catch," your buddies tell you. But for some reason, you just can't seem to meet a guy who will be serious about you. You've tried the clubs, the sex apps, and other dating sites. Nothing's working.
Here are a few tips to help you find your guy:
1. Put yourself out there.
It's no secret that finding a gay boyfriend takes time and energy. However, putting yourself out there is the best way to increase your chances of finding someone who will be serious about you and your relationship. Be sure to share your interests and be willing to try new things. It's also important to have a clear sense of your own values and what you're looking for in a partner.
2. Pay attention to his body language.
Some men may be able to hide their sexuality very well, especially in a conservative family. But if your guy frequently gestures towards other men or seems to show preference for male faces or bodies, this could be a sign that he's gay.
3. Watch the way he talks about women.
He might be very complimentary when talking about a woman, but be on the lookout for more sexual comments. Also, listen to how he discusses other women – if he shows a particular interest in their bodies or facial features, this can be a hint that he's interested in other men as well.