It’s important to note that sexual identity is personal, and that not all gay men fit into a particular mold. Being a gay sub, for example, can be an expression of kinkiness that can manifest in many different ways.
Regardless of how one chooses to express kinkiness, clear communication is vital in any BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Submission, Masochism) relationship. A dom needs to be responsible for the well-being of their sub, and it’s also important that they communicate clearly about what they want and don’t want to try. And a sub must always be respectful, consenting and comfortable. This is how a dom-sub relationship thrives. And this is how love and connection flourish. It’s a win-win for everyone involved!