If you're a gay guy, chances are you have at some point wondered how to be a bottom. The idea of being the receptive partner in anal sex can be overwhelming and intimidating for some. But it doesn't have to be.
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, and a lot of it has to do with how you feel about a power dynamic. Some people prefer tops because they feel like they are in charge, while others enjoy the pleasure of relinquishing some control and having a subservient role. It can also be a matter of personality and body type, but it's best not to judge someone on their preferences or gender identity based solely on how they present themselves in their sexual life.
You can figure out if you're more of a top or bottom by thinking about what turns you on during masturbation, or simply trying out both roles to see what feels best. Other people find that they're just naturally a bottom or a top, and some prefer to switch up between the two during anal sex.
For first time bottoms, it's helpful to practice at home and make sure you can douche well. Then, you can focus on letting go and enjoying the thrill of riding a big dick. And don't forget to use a lubricant to help with the anal penetration. It's also a good idea to eat lightly before anal sex so that your dick isn't too full and tight.